A little glamour on the Glasshouse rooftop

It was my first trip to this venue - the rooftop garden on the top of the Glasshouse beside Edinburgh's Playhouse Theatre. Right as Edinburgh was experiencing a summer heatwave, it was a perfect sunny spot for a wedding. Flora has on a beautiful silvery grey sequined dress, adding a bit of old-Hollywood style to the wedding, and the black and white theme around the garden definitely gave it a bit of glamour. 

Flora and Colin were eager to involve her children in their ceremony, making it about them all coming together as a family, so I suggested the sandmixing ceremony to them. It has definitely become a favourite of mine, especially when children are involved, and I think the end result looked amazing. Definitely something for them to keep as a reminder of their great day.

A stunning day at Archerfield House

This was my first visit to Archerfield House and I hope it's not my last. The beautiful sunny day definitely added to the atmosphere, but I have to say, I thought it was stunning. Our bride and groom, Emma and Alex, had hired the place for the weekend and so many of the guests were staying at the House that evening. 

Emma and Alex were mingling with all their guests when I arrived and then I invited everyone to take their seats for the ceremony. It gave our couple a chance to catch their breath and have a rare moment just the two of them, and then they were piped downstairs by Calum, ready to start.

It was a really nice relaxed ceremony, with lots of humour involved. The scene was set by their friend Tony who had written a fantastic poem about the two of them and being a guest at their wedding. Everyone laughed and relaxed and then we went on to share their story, with some funny twists and turns. They had both written personal vows to each other, balancing the genuine sentiment with the humour that is present in their relationship. 

And then, Emma's niece sang "Songbird" by Eva Cassidy and it was beautiful. It gave everyone a chance to reflect on their loved ones and our couple a chance to share a smile and a hug.

It was a lovely day - intimate and very personal, shared with their closest family and friends. I wish them well for a fabulous marriage.

A family coming together at the Dalmahoy

The Scottish weather has been even worse that normal, but on Saturday at the Dalmahoy Hotel, the sun was shining as Nikki walked down the aisle. This was one of the quicker planned weddings I'd done, as the couple had had to change their venue/date fairly late on and were struggling to find a celebrant. Thankfully a couple who had booked with me a year ago decided to put their wedding back a year and so I was able to step in and help Nikki and Russell.

I would usually meet a couple 2-3 months before their ceremony to plan all the details and decide on things like music, symbolic gestures, readings, vows and well wishings. But this time we met only a month before. However, they had worked hard and given a lot of thought to what they wanted their ceremony to be like which made my job so much easier. And like all the Humanist weddings I conduct, we discussed the small touches that would make it all the more personal to them. Nikki's teenage son was going to be an Usher and has also agreed to do a reading on the day.

It all came together great, and the vows they had written to each other were fantastic - a really good mix of serious and lighthearted - whether it was a little joke about watching each other's dodgy TV favourites, or which of them was the funnier one, by the time they had finished there were few guests who didn't have a tear in their eye.

At the end, they joined hands in a traditional Scottish handfasting, binding their hands together in their marriage, and then to show that twist of tradition and modern, they then walked down the aisle to "Do it again" by the Chemical Brothers!

A great fun ceremony and thank you for letting me be a part of it!

Not a dry eye at Eskmills Function Suite

I love the fact that every wedding is different. Some couples already have children together or from previous relationships, and it's lovely when we find a way to involve them in the ceremony. Thanks to Lynsey and Ross for letting me share their story...

Lynsey has a young daughter, Robyn, and together with Ross, they have a son Rocco. Both kids were involved. Wee Rocco (5) was running around play fighting with his Dad and looking rather cool in the little kilt his Dad used to wear. When Lynsey walked down the aisle, her daughter was right there as a gorgeous flowergirl. 

It's a emotional day anyway, but you could just tell how important it all was to Robyn who had a tear in her eye throughout the ceremony. However, I was really impressed with the way she took a deep breath and read out to everyone a poem that she had written herself. She got a huge round of applause from everyone, and there wasn't a dry eye in the house - including my own!

Well done to Robyn and Rocco for helping make your Mummy and Daddy's day so perfect!

A fun reading for your Humanist Wedding

Couples are often looking for readings and poems that are a little different, sometimes with a bit of humour in them. It's all about finding something that reflects your own personalities and if you are both quite laidback with a sense of humour, then why can't your ceremony be the same!

I love this one about two Dinosaurs falling in love. I've seen it done a few times now, and it works best when read by a man and women each reading the 'girl' and 'boy' parts. I've also seen it done with props!

"A Lovely Love Story" by Edward Monkton

The fierce Dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there. It was, after all, his cage. Then along came the Lovely Other Dinosaur. The Lovely Other Dinosaur melted the Dinosaur’s cage with kind words and loving thoughts.


I like this Dinosaur thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny. He is also quite clever though I will not tell him this for now.

I like this Lovely Other Dinosaur, thought the Dinosaur. She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice. She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur.

But he can be so distant and so peculiar at times, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. He is also overly fond of things. Are all Dinosaurs so overly fond of things? 

But her mind skips from here to there so quickly thought the Dinosaur. She is also uncommonly keen on shopping. Are all Lovely Other Dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping? 

I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for things, thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. For they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.

I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping, thought the Dinosaur. For she fills our life with beautiful thoughts and wonderful surprises. Besides, I am not unkeen on shopping either.

Now the Dinosaur and the Lovely Other Dinosaur are old. Look at them. Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs.

And that, my friends, is how it is with love. Let us all be Dinosaurs and Lovely Other Dinosaurs together.

For the sun is warm. And the world is a beautiful place.